To be haunted is to be visited by what will not finish. The dream is read as unresolved past demanding presence — in the East an unsettled debt to the dead or the done, in the West the return of the repressed in its most literal costume, in Ibn Sirin's tradition an intrusion to be dismissed or a matter to be settled.
Three readings
In Chinese tradition · 周公解梦
The Chinese tradition takes haunting seriously as unfinished obligation: the unquiet presence is classically a matter improperly closed — rites unperformed, words unsaid, a wrong unrighted with someone gone or something ended. The ghost's persistence is the debt's. The tradition's remedy is completion: what was owed, in memory or amends, wants paying — after which the house of the self goes quiet.
A haunting is the psyche's most honest metaphor for the unprocessed past: grief, guilt, or history that was buried rather than buried properly. The ghost returns because it was never fully met — Freud's 'return of the repressed' wearing its own costume. What the ghost does matters: watching asks to be acknowledged; speaking asks to be heard; chasing marks the avoidance itself. These dreams tend to end not when the ghost is banished but when it is finally listened to.
The tradition sorts such dreams carefully: frightening apparitions may be read as the distressing dream to be dismissed — refuge sought, the dream not fed with retelling — while a dead person appearing with a request reads as a matter genuinely wanting settlement: a debt, a duty, a prayer. As meaning: distinguish fear from summons. Fear is to be set down; the summons, honored.
The known ghost points directly: something with that person — or what they represent — remains open. Grief traditions and dream traditions agree on the response: attend to what was left unsaid or unpaid.
Why does the haunting recur in the same house?
The recurring haunted house is the psyche's fixed address for a chapter of your past. The dream repeats while the matter stays unmet; it typically stops after the acknowledgment it is asking for.
Should I be afraid of these dreams?
The traditions counsel the opposite of fear: the Islamic etiquette dismisses the frightening dream's power; psychology reads the ghost as needing hearing, not exorcism. The haunting ends by being met, not fled.
This is the general reading. Your dream is specific.